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Parents: 'Mommy, I’m Too Old For That'

Kids want to grow up too quickly, and that can be tough for parents to accept.

My 5-year-old uttered words I was not prepared for the other day. He said, “Mommy, I’m too old for that.”

He broke my heart.

We were ready for a little downtime. My youngest was napping. We had been out all morning running errands and playing at the park. I was exhausted, and since my oldest has long since given up his naps, it was movie time.

I grabbed the case containing all our movies, and suggested we watch "Cars"—it’s one of his favorites.

In fact, just three months ago, we searched all over Disney World so he could have his picture taken with the real Lightning McQueen car. 

So, imagine my surprise when he said, “Mommy, I’m too old for that.”

Apparently, our days of watching "Caillou" and playing with Fisher-Price are over. We swiftly moved from Matchbox cars and Diego to Beyblade's and Skylander’s. Yes, the Schantz household has evolved to all the latest fads that the older neighborhood boys are fascinated with.

As a rational person, I know my boys are growing up. When people said, time flies or kids grow up too fast, I didn’t believe them.

But, it is happening.

In just the blink of the eye, I have a boy who is registered for Kindergarten and is asking for a skateboard. He wants to know more about girls in the neighborhood and when he can watch PG-13 movies. I am not ready for this.

I also have a toddler who couldn't care less about his age-appropriate toys—he prefers his brother’s Power Rangers, Spider-Man and lightsabers.

Really? I want my babies back!

It’s also sad to me how quickly kids want to grow up. My son wants to be big. Despite his picky eating habits, he will now eat new foods simply because he thinks that his feet will get bigger so he can wear a size 13 shoe. While I chuckle at his logic, I’m at least happy at his new desire for “big kid food.”

My sadness at their growing up is also ironic. As the kids get older, so many things get easier. For instance, going out to dinner used to be a nightmare. Now, my boys enjoy it. Traveling used to mean two extra suitcases to accommodate all the baby gear. Now they each have their own bag and look forward to the vacation. But it still makes me sentimental about all the milestones we've passed, even if it means there are new ones ahead.

While I know there is no magic pixie dust to keep them young, it still breaks my heart when I realize how quickly their childhood years are going by.

How do you cope with the realization that your babies are not babies anymore? Are you sad that your kids are getting older? Tell us in the comments.

Related Topics: Growing Up, Kids growing up too fast, Perry Hall parents, and kids getting older

Tim

9:18 am on Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Ha! my 5 year old wants nothing to do with PG-13 movies and girls. I want to keep it that way as girls are nothing but trouble anyway! We let him watch Gremlins about 6 months ago maybe? Maybe it was less time. Anyway he actually had trouble sleeping that night from it, and now we use it as rationalization whenever he wants to see anything of the sort that's over his age.

Like his father (and his mother really, to a lesser extent) we have our own problem in that he's developing into a gamer. He digs the achieveing of things in them. We're managing his time in front of a TV of course, but he was so excited it was actually going to rain all weekend because he figured he'd be able to play Lego Star Wars II on his x-Box all day (so to speak). As if we'd let him veg out all weekend.

We actually let him have at it for a lot of Sunday after keeping him off of it for the most part saturday (as the rain didn't come). He's in this lull in sports as well as swimming doesn't kick in for a few more weeks I think, so there's quite a bit of downtime for him right now.
He still plays soccer with me for about an hour a weekend, but he's expressed no regret at missing out on playing baseball. He is already looking forward to soccer with you know who in the fall though. He still talks about how he and your son both "scored two goals" in the last games. :)

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Stacey Schantz

12:10 pm on Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Ugh, Tim, we too are trying to break the gaming trend. It's tough with crummy weather, between his TV addiction and gaming facination, I find the best thing to do is just turn it off!!! Then they play. He earns his time by being good, then he can play. We just got into Skylanders, which has taken the Wii to a whole new level. I'm just glad for the warmer weather so they'll play outside.

Samantha

11:41 am on Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Lucky for me, Jackson still calls himself a baby if it means getting out of big boy things that he doesn't want to do. But I'm sure as school rolls around, my big baby will turn into a big boy pretty quickly :(

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Stacey Schantz

12:08 pm on Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Funny, Samantha, my 2yo throws a fit if I say, "come here baby", or anything in reference to a baby!!!

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Tim

12:50 pm on Tuesday, April 24, 2012

That probably has a lot to do with his self awareness that he's the little brother. He's got that chip on his shoulder already :)

Stacey Schantz

3:16 pm on Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Tim, that is an understatement!!!

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