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Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Perry Hall Parents

Disciplining Young Children

What works best when dealing with bad behavior?

Throwing temper tantrums, refusing to listen, fighting, talking back, hitting, not sharing, biting and disobeying. Sound familiar? How do you handle this behavior? With two kids under 5, I spend a good portion of my day refereeing or saying no, no and no. Unfortunately, both of my boys inherited one of my qualities that I wish they hadn’t—they are stubborn. And not just a little stubborn. It's more like full-blown, should-have-been-redheads-like-their-mother stubborn. And while this tenacity will be an asset later in life, right now it’s my parenting nightmare.   Recently, I've re-evaluated my use of timeouts and taking away toys or privileges to correct these parenting challenges. Here’s what I’ve come up with to combat these behavior …

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Tim

11:55 am on Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Puma: No offense, but if your niece is willingly doing this at 5, then is is POSSIBLE that she wasn't properly disciplined earlier on in life. it is unfortunate that your niece was abusing your dog like this. Rest assured if we ever came to visit, mine would be doing nothing but try to lovingly pet Woofie. And I'd be avoiding her, as I'm allergic. However it's entirely possible I'm wrong, and …   more ›

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Perry Hall Parents

Handling the Frustrated Toddler

Figuring out how to communicate is a difficult stage for toddlers.

We recently re-entered toddlerhood. My 1-year-old started walking about three weeks ago. It’s been so exciting to see him explore his world vertically, but it also seems to have brought on a bout of frustration that I didn’t see in my older boy until he was much older. Obviously, parenting a toddler brings on a whole new realm of experiences. I used to be able to put him down in the playroom and he’d quietly play with his toys. Now, I put him down and turn around to find that he has snuck in the bathroom and is pulling the toilet paper. Toddlers are exploring and trying to figure out how everything works. They are learning to better communicate their needs with their parent. During this stage, it can be aggravating to the child and the …

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Stacey Schantz

8:16 pm on Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Thanks for your comment! Sibling rivalry sure starts early, doesn't it! I wasn't it expecting it for a few years. Boy, was I wrong! And I feel for you on the constant crying when the baby doesn't get his/her way. All we can do is be patient, redirect - which works pretty well - and wait out the phase. Good luck!   more ›

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